Buddy System proves friendly to Air Force surgical technicians from Guam

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  • By Chuck Roberts
  • Landstuhl Regional Medical Center Public Affairs
Whenever Tiamae Cruz needed a helping hand in Guam, a friendly face always seemed to arrive within minutes.

So when the 18-year-old decided to join the Air Force and leave the confines of her Pacific island measuring 30 miles long by 12 miles wide, she looked around for the usual reassurance.

Enter Taija Alcantara, grammar school chum, high school sporting rival and rediscovered best friend and fellow student at the University of Guam.

"It would be great if you joined me," said Cruz after breaking the big news at a coffee shop rendezvous.

Alcantara was on a similar career path as her best friend -- Cruz aspires to become a veterinarian while Alcantara hopes to become a cardiac surgeon - but a military career in unknown lands was a daunting proposal. She had never left the island except for a few months as a 4-year-old, while Cruz had visited the states occasionally but only with family.

"We were really, really scared and nervous," Airman Cruz said. "It was a big step. Being from Guam, everything is small and you're used to leaning on your family and friends."

It seemed clear the developing plan called for some sort of guaranteed Guam support network, which fortunately the local military recruiter was able to offer. Through the Air Force Buddy System, he was able to guarantee the friends would spend the first six weeks of their military career together at basic training. So at the time it seemed enough, but the contract they signed would later turn out to be much more than they could have ever hoped for.

When their 24-hour flight to basic training ended with a screaming welcoming committee at Lackland Air Force Base in Texas, the value of the buddy system became immediately apparent.

"Basic training was kind of scary," Airman Cruz said. "Taija was my support network."

Their companionship helped overcome the initial tears and a desire to return home, but it wasn't always encouraged, said Airman Alcantara, a native of Mangilao, Guam.

Not only their basic training instructor, but subsequent technical school instructors felt the young women were too dependent upon each other and attempted to separate the pair. Some encouraged competitiveness between them, but for Airmen Cruz and Alcantara the issue was friendship and supporting each other along this new military adventure, Airman Cruz said explaining their reasoning at the time.

"We can work on our own. We can function on our own. It's just that we find sometimes we function better together," said Airman Cruz, whose hometown is Yona, Guam.

From basic training, the two comrades could have gone in different directions both professionally and geographically. They entered the Air Force as "open general," meaning they did not have a guaranteed specific job. Instead, during basic training they would pick a job among five choices, and surgical technician was an option offered to both. For two women seeking medical careers, it was the obvious choice.

After basic, the Guam connection continued to Sheppard AFB, Texas, for eight weeks of technical training. When that ended, they once again beat the buddy system odds and both were assigned to Travis AFB, Calif., for six additional weeks of on-the-job training.

At both training bases they continued to hear comments such as, "Where's your other half?" or "Why aren't you with your twin?" In fact, now that they were roommates with more free time on their hands, they joked about feeling like true sisters sharing both good times and occasional spats followed by a door slam.

With technical school completed, Airmen Alcantara and Cruz returned to Guam where they participated in the Recruiter Assistance Program while on leave. As part of the recruiter program, Airmen visit schools and other locations to help promote the Air Force. Airman Alcantara also managed time to get married, with her maid of honor being, who else, but her fellow Airman and best friend. They picked out the wedding gown together while wearing their battle dress uniforms.

After their trip home, it was time to begin in earnest their Air Force careers. The odds were further stacked against the buddy system extending to a job at the same location in the big blue global Air Force. But they both put Germany at the top of their "dream sheet" of potential bases they would like to be stationed at, and Germany it was.

"We were excited when we heard we were coming here," Airman Alcantara said. "But it's so big and you just don't know where to start ... I'm in culture shock." She soon faces even further adjustment when her husband, Shawn Alcantara, departs for Air Force basic training.

"I'm freezing, first of all," laughed Airman Cruz when asked how she has adjusted since their Dec. 2 arrival. She contrasted life in Landstuhl with Guam, where she described a life of "always at the beach" swimming, snorkeling or playing sports.

"My whole system has been thrown off. I don't know what to do, I don't know who I am, I don't know how to act sometimes. It's weird trying to readjust and find myself again," she said with a laugh.

Although new to their career field and to Landstuhl Regional Medical Center where they continue with their on-the-job training, their supervisor said both are solid performers who have hit the ground running.

"Airman  Alcantara and Airman Cruz have already proven themselves to be valuable assets to our surgical suite," said Tech. Sgt. Jonah Gruner, NCOIC of the operating room. "They both are extremely motivated. They work together seamlessly, yet they seem to keep a good-natured competition between them while completing their Career Development Courses. Hopefully, their friendship will continue to grow throughout their careers. We are thrilled to have them here."

Their friendship seems certain to continue throughout their careers, but will their careers continue alongside throughout their friendship?

"That will be interesting. We don't know," Airman Cruz said of the prospect. If their future leads in different directions, she said that will be OK because they will have grown both personally and professionally in the meantime.

"Honestly, she's like my sister," Airman Cruz said. "We're always going to be there for each other. Family is family. If something happens to your family, you're going to be there for them."